missmisanthropic:

but I hate girls that think in terms of “no means no” and that there’s no such thing as “asking” for it. Yes, there is. And don’t tell me I “don’t know shit.” I know first hand.

To my followers, do not read the following or the OP’s post if you have rape triggers.

I removed the rest of your post out of respect for your privacy, and because I really don’t think my followers need to know if they’re not following you. This is my perception on the situation; whether I’m following what you said entirely or not, I’m basing this on what you’ve written here. I would have just replied, if it weren’t for the character limit.

You were 15. You were young and under the influence of your obsession. Most people have been through that same sense of love that you had. Whether you knew it was real love or believed it was, you probably didn’t know entirely what you wanted. You were also tipsy that night.

He was older; by instinct whether you thought it or not, you more than likely were scared of him beneath the feelings. He verbally abused you when you didn’t give in, and he still continued to do as he wished without listening.

You are not entirely at fault. You, in your drunk state, probably couldn’t manage to fight him. He could have still listened.  You said no. You asked him to stop. That is sexual assault, and since it was non-consensual, it can also be seen as rape.

What you wore was your decision (though, that’s where I got a tad confused. You said you were wearing a short skirt, then suddenly said that you were wearing pants.), and probably gave him the signals that you were interested, but it doesn’t mean he had any right. Making out doesn’t grant the immediate “yes you can fuck me” consent.

(Source: where-dreamsgo)